Talking Boys and Body Image: Helping Boys Struggling With Body Image
The body image issue is often booming among girls. Dr. Roberts addresses the complex stigma that exists among the male population, “…there seems to be a stigma around males being too concerned with body image, and yet, there is societal pressure on males to meet certain physical ideals, like being very muscular. So, in a way, they are supposed to strive for a certain body type but hide the fact that they feel the pressure.” The concept is pretty much just as confusing as it sounds.
Body image related issues in boys seem to emerge around the time that they hit puberty. This is the transition in which they may feel pressured to assert their masculinity. The male body can play a huge role in this assertion according to societal standards.
Signs that the struggle is real
There is a difference in making positive or healthy changes in one’s exercise or diet habits. But if the motivation is driven from a dark, unhealthy place, you should confront the issue head-on and get your son the help he needs. Here are some warning signs that your son may be struggling with body image issues:
- Noticeable change in diet or exercise
- Significant changes in weight
- Changes in eating habits, like not eating enough food, overeating, sneaking food or bingeing
- Any significant restrictions of certain foods or food groups
- A child who seems to hide under very oversized clothes and/or refuses to take off bulky clothes in hot weather
- Negative comments about body/body image
- Being bullied about body or weight
- Use of supplements to gain muscle or any weight loss supplements
You should note that some of these do not directly mean that a body image concern is present. Instead, they serve as POSSIBLE factors that could stem from a deeper issue. Boys cope with body image issues differently, so the way they take action will vary. For example, the use of supplements to gain muscle may not indicate a body image issue. Instead, your son may just have a passion for fitness and want to bulk up and get stronger. Personal motivation can drive some of these measures. You should address the situation if you have concerns. Just to offer support if your son needs it or to simply show you care.
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